I've had to disable the media gallery temporarily. I used a semi-roundabout manner, and I can undo this if there's still issues on the site. Usage has been kicked up again and my host is starting to complain. Since it's a very heavy feature (this and the chat room no one uses) I am going to try to disable it the best I can and see if things persist. If it persists, I'll try chat next though that one's harder.
Once again, if anyone can reach yasl, please tell him to poke in. Thanks, and sorry for being a crappy web host for everyone.
Edit: Nevermind, found where to mostly-turn-off the chat. Please note that I also disabled any indication that people are IN said chat room, so functionally it is now obsolete. However you're welcome to schedule a roleplay session with people via private message. "Come to chat at X time" - Even I won't notice, haha.